I say that my desire is to give myself completely to a master who will take full control over my life with no limits.
In practice, however, we need to agree on some ground rules.I hope I do not come across as attempting to “dictate” how things occur, I just need to state my comfort level with various activities.
There is no way for me to list every possible scenario here, so I am hoping that the “spirit” of each will suffice.
Hard Limits
The following are completely off limits under all circumstances.
- No Blood
- No Diseases
- Nothing Which Will Permanently Harm Me
- No Bestiality
- Nothing “Feminine”
- No To Most Drugs (ask if you have questions)
- No Needles
etc.
There are a couple of specific issues I must add which fall outside the scope above.These are primarily for health and safety concerns.
- Ticking (this is a health issue for me, as under some circumstances I am unable to breathe while being tickled)
- Breath Play
- Bastianado, or similar foot abuse
Soft Limits
There are some issues which fall outside my comfort zone, but only because of lack of experience, I simply ask you to approach these areas with a gentle touch
- Electro play
- Piercings
Variable Circumstances
There are a few places, however, where I feel it’s appropriate to set some boundaries, for the safety of us both, situations where some things might be ok at one time and not another.
I need to trust that if you are making a life long commitment, that you will be doing everything in your power to ensure that I will never again be a free man. I would hope that, should you become unwilling or unable to keep me as your slave in the future, that you would attempt to make other arrangements to ensure that I remain the property of a suitable master for the rest of my life.
Unforeseen Circumstances
Finally, I would ask that you offer me no more than 3 “wildcard” limits.  There is no way we can foresee something several years down the line which I might be very uncomfortable with. This allows me a tiny bit of freedom to protect myself in the future.  Should I wish to add a fourth “wildcard” I must drop one of the three existing.